Today marks International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women and the beginning of 16 days of action to end gender based abuse around the world.
In this country, in 2012, an incident of domestic violence is reported to the police every 60 seconds. That translates as 10% of all emergency calls. More than a million British women a year experience domestic violence, though experts say the vast majority of incidents remain unreported. Three women a week kill themselves as a result of domestic abuse – and another 30 try to.
Despite the prevalence, domestic violence is known as the ‘hidden’ crime. It’s ‘hidden’ in the sense that, by definition, the punch, the humiliation, the rape goes on behind closed doors. It’s hidden in that, despite two women continuing to die a week, local authorities have blindly cut 31% of funding to domestic and sexual violence services over the past two years. It’s ‘hidden’ in the way it can affect any woman, but those women who are already marginalised due to ethnicity, sexuality, or disability can face additional problems.
When it comes to media coverage, the latter group are particularly ‘hidden’. Seemingly comfortable with reporting abuse within residential care or by professionals, there’s considerably less said about the abuse of women with disabilities if it’s by someone they’re in a sexual relationship with or if happens within their own home. As part of The Guardian’s domestic violence series, this week I covered the issue for G2.
Thank you for this exceptional article. I am a domestic violence survivor and I decided to end my silence and tell my story. I am hoping that anyone that is dealing with it/dealt with it can try to overcome the pain when the physical pain is gone.
You can read my story here: http://yourejustadumbass.wordpress.com/2012/10/31/death-of-my-former-self/
I hope this brings any reader strength and understanding.
Thank you very much – and for your brave, thoughtful blog.
I am happy to share it!
Thank you for all of the work you do on behalf of women and human rights!